Hope and Humility Conversation Starter

Suggested: 10 minutes

Each individual will go through two sets of questions and receive two auto-generated scores, which will show at the bottom of both.

Note: This is not a scientifically designed diagnostic quiz. These questions are meant to be light-hearted and are intentionally designed to be a bit exaggerated to prompt conversation. Select the answers that most closely reflect your inclination when it comes to political topics and conversations.

Hope Questions

You’re flipping through the channels on your TV or scrolling through social media and the latest political controversy appears. What do you do?
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  • Walk away from the TV or immediately close the app. The news throws you into a state of despair about the world and you’d rather ignore it.
  • Leave the channel on or keep scrolling through the controversy for hours.
  • Switch channels/apps and look for something to distract you from all of the bad news.
  • Take about 30 minutes to learn the details, then turn it off.
If someone were to ask if you trust government leaders to make important decisions for the U.S., how would you reply?
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  • No. If they made it into office, then they’re already corrupt.
  • Not usually. They don’t seem concerned with what’s at stake in the decisions for people like me.
  • Sometimes. I distrust some individuals but assume most are operating in good faith.
  • Yes. The U.S. Constitution establishes a framework and process for democratic participation and holding leadership accountable.
What do you do during an election year?
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  • Tune it all out. Conflict is uncomfortable and, in any case, you believe your vote doesn't really matter.
  • Devote yourself to a platform or a party. You quietly hope that those from the other party might choose not to vote.
  • Reluctantly do some research and vote quietly. You’re glad when it’s over.
  • Read widely about the topics that are important to you, even from those whose opinions you find offensive, to understand all sides of the debate.
Which set of words best describes how you feel about politics?
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  • Frustrated and defeated
  • Lost and nostalgic
  • It’s complicated
  • Hopeful
The future of American democracy looks like it is heading in the direction of…
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  • Civil war
  • Perpetual unrest
  • A stalemate
  • Healthy compromise
Do you pray for the government or specific government leaders?
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  • No, the country is continuing to go downhill.
  • Yes, but only for one political party to win.
  • Occasionally, when you feel despair about the future.
  • Yes, consistently.
You are going to Thanksgiving or another event where you know you’ll have to spend a lot of time with people who don’t see eye-to-eye on politics. How do you prepare?
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  • Find a reason to back out. Too much drama and stress.
  • You’ll go, but you’ll do everything you can to avoid that person or that topic.
  • Research and prepare your arguments. Maybe this is the year when you convince your uncle to agree with you.
  • Focus on the time spent together. Some things are more important than politics.
Hope total:
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Humility Questions

When the presidential political debates are televised, what do you do?
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  • Cheer on your candidates and shout down opposing candidates like at a sporting event.
  • Who are you kidding? You’re not watching because you know how it ends. You might read a couple of analyses the next day.
  • Pause the debate constantly to fact-check the candidates when they get something wrong and debunk their claims.
  • Try to gather various perspectives on the debate by watching with friends who see things differently or reading articles from different viewpoints the next day.
Your uncle reposts on Facebook a thread that has been circulating filled with wild conspiracy theories. How do you respond?
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  • Get into a debate with your uncle publicly on his post and link articles to your favorite news sites debunking the conspiracy theory.
  • Take a screenshot and send it to a family member or friend with the caption: “look how crazy this is.”
  • Hide your uncle from your Facebook feed so you don’t see his posts anymore.
  • Pray for your uncle and maybe ask if he would like to catch up sometime soon.
You are at church when the preacher says something you disagree with politically. What’s your reaction?
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  • Vow to write the preacher a harsh email on Monday morning to explain your anger that they pushed a political agenda from the pulpit.
  • Size up the person beside you quickly and assume they would not be kind to you if you expressed your disagreement.
  • Ask your pastor to grab coffee so you can politely explain your disagreement.
  • Talk with people at your church who are interested in the contentious topic. You hope to foster respect and better understand the other side.
Which adjectives would your family or friends use to describe how you approach political conversations?
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  • Aggressive and argumentative
  • Passionate and committed
  • Cautious and sympathetic
  • Thoughtful and nuanced
If you were to meet a stranger who held an opposite political belief about a topic you are passionate about, you would feel…
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  • Defensive about your own worldview.
  • Threatened by their worldview.
  • Hesitant to start a conversation.
  • Curious to learn more about how they arrived at their beliefs.
How often have you changed your opinion on a topic you were confident about?
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  • Never
  • Seldom
  • Occasionally
  • I’ve had to admit I was wrong several times
Do you believe a Christian can reasonably have a different stance on a controversial issue like immigration reform or gun control?
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  • No, not if they've carefully thought through it.
  • On most hot topic issues there is only one right Christian response.
  • Sometimes, but what really matters is that Scripture is more of a guide than a rulebook for politics.
  • Well-meaning, well-informed, godly people can disagree on specific policy issues.
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Locating Yourself on the Quadrant

Look back at your two scores and then locate where you landed on the quadrant above.

Read below the descriptions for each profile. After you read the descriptions, if you scored 15 and 15 or you do not feel like the profile you landed in is accurate, choose the one that best describes your current posture toward politics.

Select your profile below.

Note: These profiles are not fixed and you might have different tendencies depending on the discussion topic or your season of life.

The Combatant Profile

The Combatant Profile is high in hope and low in humility. They are fighting political battles because they believe their side can win. However, their fighting spirit is untempered by the possibility that “they do not know what they are asking.” They believe confidently that their side is right, and that’s that.

We may see this among uncompromising young activists with sweeping policy demands, overzealous parents at a PTA meeting, or just that person who dominates conversations about politics. They engage because they believe their world can improve, but they miss the complexity of an issue or the validity present in opposing views.

In politics, Combatants exercise a level of influence that greatly exceeds their actual numbers. This is because politics – like any human activity — is dominated by those who care the most. And out of all the profiles, the Combatants care the most about winning. For them, the stakes are very high.

Picture the Combatant as the one who has their fists up to the world. They are more than ready to engage, but their posture means they are also defending themselves against any countervailing influence.

The Exhausted Profile

The Exhausted Profile is the mirror image of the Combatant. The Exhausted is low in hope and high in humility. This profile is essentially humble: they do not claim to have all the answers. In fact, they fear that no one can figure a way out of the current conflict, and so have given up on politics entirely.

We see this exhaustion among people skipping family reunions riven by partisan conflict, blocking anyone posting politics on social media, and changing the subject whenever this topic comes up in conversations. When conflict arises, they want to hide and back away into the bushes.

In America, surveys show that this profile is much more widespread than any other profile, giving rise to the term, “The Exhausted Majority.” Compared to the Combatants on both sides, the Exhausted Majority holds more moderate views, are more open to compromise, and dislike the spirit of hatred overtaking politics. However, the Exhausted actually exercise much less influence than would be warranted by their actual numbers. The reason is obvious: you cannot exert influence when you are hiding in the bushes.

Picture the Exhausted as the one who has their shoulders slumped and their face buried in their hands. In their politics, they are not offending or hurting others; but they also are squandering their potential influence for good.

The Cynic Profile

The Cynic Profile is low in both humility and hope. Like the Combatant, Cynics believe they are right, and are not really open to learning otherwise; it’s just that unlike the Combatant, the Cynic is especially self-convinced about one particular truth: that things are hopeless. Like the Exhausted, the Cynics have given up — it’s just that unlike the Exhausted, the Cynics are so self-certain that they influence others with their deep seated pessimism.

In their combination of certitude and disengagement, Cynics can seem sophisticated (indeed, for many Cynics, this is part of the appeal of this posture). Their disengagement actually makes their critical takes more convincing than that of the Combatant (who can be more easily dismissed as biased). As confident and seemingly sophisticated critics, Cynics often exercise social influence disproportionate to their numbers.

However, the long-term effect of the Cynic is corrosive. At the individual level, cynicism is self-corrosive, as this posture leaves the holder stewing in a spiritually degrading mix of pride and despair. At the broader societal level, the spread of the “I know better” and “everything is hopeless” combination undermines our institutions. Institutions depend on people trusting institutional knowledge. However, as more citizens are influenced by the self-certitude of cynicism, the average person is increasingly willing to believe that he – armed with a few online videos produced by fringe voices (that sound very confident) – know better about the complexities of a virus and a vaccine than established scientific institutions. Institutions also depend on the participation of people. However, as politicians who lose elections cynically undermine trust in the election system, people feel any kind of engagement is hopeless; they don’t bother to even vote (much less volunteer as much needed election-workers).

Picture the Cynic with arms folded, eyebrows slightly arched, and standing above it all. In their politics, they are not offering their own constructive energy, only proffering critiques that tear down what is around them, especially the institutions that run so much of our lives.

The Disciple Profile

The Disciple Profile is the one who is high in Humility and Hope because they have submitted their political lives to Jesus. The Disciple is humble: they recognize that the political world is defined by complexity, and this means that there are rarely obvious and easy answers. The Disciple believes firmly in objective truth, but is much less firm that they themselves have complete ownership of truth. The Disciple thus is willing – indeed eager – to listen and learn from others, including others who might hold different views.

The Disciple is also filled with Hope. The Disciple believes that Jesus is the Lord, the King of Kings. They have faith that Jesus will ultimately restore all of creation – including the political world – to God’s loving and just purposes. The Disciple places their hope for this final restoration in Jesus and his final return, not in human political parties or leaders. In the meantime, the Disciple seeks to serve the world by acting as signposts to that ultimate Hope.

Picture the Disciple as the one whose head is inclined forward seeking to listen and learn, and whose arms are held open ready to accept and serve.

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